When to Bring in a Caregiver
It can be really tough to know when it’s the right time to get outside help for an aging parent. There are a few signs that might indicate it’s time to consider getting professional assistance:
1. Increased Safety Concerns
Wandering: If your parent starts to wander and can’t find their way back home or becomes lost in familiar places.
Risky behaviors: If they start to forget things like turning off the stove or taking medications, it could be a sign that you need more help.
Falls or accidents: If they’re falling or injuring themselves more frequently.
2. Exhaustion and Stress
Caring for a loved one can be physically and emotionally exhausting. If you find yourself constantly overwhelmed, stressed, or physically drained, it may be a signal that you need help to lighten the load.
Caregiver burnout can happen when you're trying to do everything yourself, and it’s crucial to take care of your own health. 70% of caregivers experience burnout.
3. Inability to Manage Daily Activities
If they’re struggling with personal hygiene, meals, or basic activities like dressing, you might need support to manage those things on a consistent basis.
Conditions and disease that come with aging makes daily tasks more challenging, and there may come a point where it’s no longer manageable to do it alone.
4. Behavioral and Emotional Changes
If their behavior becomes more unpredictable, such as increased agitation, aggression, or anxiety, it might be difficult to handle without additional help.
If they start having trouble managing their emotions or become upset for no apparent reason, it can become hard for family members to cope without support.
5. Decline in Health
If your parent’s health starts to deteriorate (physically or mentally), and you’re not able to provide the level of care they need, it may be time to bring in a professional.
This could include issues like memory loss getting significantly worse, difficulty swallowing, or more serious medical issues.
6. Need for Specialized Care
Specialized care may become necessary, such as with Alzheimer’s. This could mean hiring an in-home care provider or moving them to an assisted living or memory care facility where they can get the proper medical attention and supervision.
7. Your Family’s Needs
If caregiving is affecting your relationships with other family members, work, or social life, it could be a sign that you need to involve others (either through outside help or support groups) to balance things out.
What Kind of Help Is Available?
In-home care services: Caregivers can assist with daily tasks, personal hygiene, and companionship.
Adult day care: This can provide care during the day while you work or have a break.
Memory care facilities: These are specialized communities designed for people with Alzheimer’s or other dementias, offering safety and medical care.
It’s important to trust your instincts and recognize when you need help. If you start feeling like you can’t do it all or your loved one is not safe, it’s okay to ask for assistance. Do you have a support system in place, or are you feeling unsure about the next steps? Please do not hesitate to reach out to us for navigation. Email us at Hello@CardamomPath.com
